Definition
to dictate or control someone in an impolite or intimidating manner
粗暴地指使或控制某人
At her workplace, her boss often pushes her around, forcing her to endure such treatment.
在她的工作場所，她的老闆經常粗暴地指使她，迫使她忍受這樣的對待。
He doesn't like his friends pushing him around at weekend gatherings, which makes him feel very uncomfortable.
他不喜歡朋友在週末聚會時粗暴地指使他，這讓他感到非常不舒服。
In this situation, you shouldn't let others push you around; you should assert your opinions firmly.
在這種情況下，你不應該讓別人粗暴地指使你，你應該堅定地表明自己的意見。